WHAT DOES IT MEAN?

What does it mean? i asked myself. How others define love? I slept over it and concluded, Everyone has his/her own definition. But no one can put it in words easily. All definitions are obviously very personal like our DNA . Why i am asking these questions? Actually I too had/have a love story and I am figuring out what love is? How it happens?

I have a bad habit of asking strange questions but don’t worry guys i always put my neck in cutter ..as i don;t ask these question to anyone else except myself. A very strange question which i recently asked myself. Did i love her or I need her to love me? Both statements sound same but i am sorry, these statements are totally different.

First statement says I love her and what all matters to me is her happiness, In all conditions. It means I love her more than i love myself. This mean i care her and that mean i can leave her too for her good. Second statement says I am eccentric person and bit of selfish too so I just wish/want her to love me irrespective of her expectations ,constraints and requirements.

Some-one asked me : We all shoot for moon but do we all touch it ? Answer i know. No. Same person asked me: how much you can love some one!

LOVE : IS THERE ANY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND TRUE LOVE?

LOVE , is there any difference between love and true love? Do there is any word like true love ? if it is there that mean there will be fake love also …ahhhh i don’t think so. It can’t be. I wish you to take you through my understanding of true love.

What is actually the true love or love is? That is the most beautiful thing that can happen to someone, because that is one shared feeling. When one meet someone and fall in love with him/her that is not the true love still. If this person shares your feelings that still is not the true love. because we share feeling with our room-mates our friends.

The true love could be trust, because without him every relationship is fated and can’t survive a long time in-fact we can’t call it relationship. When you have trust in your partner you are anxiety-free but even still that is not true love.

The true love is a friendship. You must to can be not only lover to your partner, you must be his/her friend. She/He should open his/her heart to you as a friend too.

It is a true love when you can talk about everything with the person who you are in love with. .

The true love is care, because when you are in love with someone you make everything that your partner can feel fine and loved. When the love is a true love this fact automatically eliminates the egoism, because now you are not alone and you must thing about the wishes, which have the person with who you are. When you love someone you want to make him happy.

The true love is when two people want to spend their time together in loving each other and when their love survives all of the obstacles, which they meet during their life together. Furthermore, if the people are able to keep their love the same as it was in the beginning through out the years, you can say that this is true love.

I think all of above said points in isolation can’t be true love but yes all of these in combination is true love or love .

OHHH but what about true love and love ? i missed that point all together. I think i am in love. Just now i had asked one more question to myself . Can we fell in love and then again come out of it ? that is bullshit …that can’t be possible i think so but i have habit of asking wrong questions. I hope some-one some-where will forgive me for the same. TCR LOVE . I will carry on my journey to find out answers of question.

LOVE IS OMNIPRESENT OR NO WHERE?

LOVE , essence of life…one of the most used word in this world…one of the easiest and sweetest word of any language. A word, very simple to pronounce or write, very easy to remember but might be one of the difficult word to understand. Is it so ? Is love is difficult to understand, i thought it is intriguing but Love is simple, love is the basic emotion with  which we embark the journey of this life. The moment we open our eyes we start looking for it. We cry when no one listen us, we wish all attention and love of people around us and we target those who don’t look good at us with our secret weapon some time just with brine and some time with #^%#%^%. anyways that’s how keep our parents and sibling on toes.

Mother love her kids but don’t she too expect love back from them? but that is normal. Then what is selfless love. I think expecting love in return is not a point, expecting bigger pie of some-one’s life is the concerns. A mother love her kids and than as they grow, she let them flew in open space and let them find other loves of their life books,music,freedom and a better half..etc (its a long list). That’s a difficult part but that’s what true and selfless love is, because she is happy in that. quit simple isn’t it .

Now as grown up, we start searching love of our life ..some call it their goals some their destination..it could be a dream profession, a goal or a dream girl/boy. In this journey we find many dummy destinations and all of those destinations teach us something. We never stop at any destination, we just keep on moving and adding new destinations in our diary. WHY? We always have a model of selfless love MOM, our Dear Friends, Our Spouse and Our hobbies then why still we keep searching for it, till the end of the day.

Except all of above thoughts, what’s a difference between true love and love? love is love how could one can fake it up. Its up-to us to make is easy or complex and i think most of us do the same. WE make love a complex subject and never come out with real solution. I don’t know what i want to say by this article or few line but i am myself trying to find out answers of few questions.

THE LOST SYMBOL… Dan Brown

An intriguing story by Dan Brown. They said America was known and in-fact now to as a land f opportunity, a land of scientific belief but after reading the series of Mr Brown’s novels, one can say that America is also a land of mysteries, secrets and random theories. THE LOST SYMBOL, an interesting story. A story full of gyan about American  heroes and American buildings. Main architecture of this story is quite like the one which we have seen in Dan brown’s other stories. Main ingredient: a theory , professor Langdon, CIA/Government agency and a lunatic. 

First scene too is quite predictable, a dark room full of strange looking peoples. A ceremony is about to conclude, a man is sitting in centre with a skull full of red liquid. Red liquid is not a blood, its just a symbolic of it. All these people are performing masonry ceremony to upgrade one of their brother. Mason, A member of a widespread secret fraternal order pledged to mutual assistance and brotherly love. A secret but a very powerful brotherhood. Mr Peter solomon , 33rd degree mason and head of Smithsonian Institution USA. An early morning he summoned his best friend professor Langdon to deliver a speech on “ Symbols   “ at United state Capitol hill Washington D.C and requested him to bring a package which Mr Peter left with professor. Professor reached at venue but ops ..there is nothing and soon he realized, he is tricked into it but by the time CIA director Ms SATO (a hard nose lady ) and a squad of CIA is behind Professor. Meanwhile Mr Peter is kidnaped by a Mason brother of him Mal'akh. Mr. Malakh has already killed few of the characters in his past life …like Mr Peter’s mother, Mr Peter’s son Zachary Solomon and few other side kicks. Now Mr Malakh is on hunt for Ms Katherine Solomon. Ms Solomon is now only left family of Peter. She is an noetic scientist. She has a well established and fully equipped laboratory, which was funded by his brother. She do had made some good research and experiments there with the help of her assistant Ms Dumes , the only one who is allowed in-side the lab.

Mr Malakh is behind some secret hidden under Washington and gateway of the same is hidden under symbols ,which only professor can decode. With this agenda in mind he instigate a series of murder and actions which stir whole Washington city for a night. As usual Professor is the kingpin and have onus to solve this riddle and there are helping hand for him too and finally he is able to save his friend Peter from his own son Malakh and save mason’s secret too.

TAKE AWAY FROM BOOK:

All forefathers of Morden America were mason’s inclusive of Father of nation.

Mr Brown has a set of way to tell a story, his plot is quite predictable. His characters are predictable. His story to roam around same boundary. A professor, who is in trouble because of his knowledge, a rich and famous man in trouble because of some secrets , Rich man’s daughter or sister who to get enrolled because of blood relation. Professor and lady will lead the pack, will try to solve the problem while government agencies are behind them and murderer is ahead of them. Few explosions, some theories and finally happy ending.

My god …Mr Brown ..we need something new. Please…Please …i will rate other books of him better than this one….by the way the secret hidden under Washington DC was a word the BIBLE .

Praise the GOD…………lets hope Mr TOM HANKS will bring this book in better taste on big screen.

True Love... shared by Doctor,

By: Varun Tirumala on May 15, 2012

It was a busy morning, approximately 8:30 a.m., when an elderly gentleman in his 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb in my Clinic. He stated that he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him look at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.
While taking care of his wound, we began to engage in conversation. I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
I then inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?"
He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is."I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.